Honestly, I think you are right and maybe they just haven't taken the time to understand.
At my house there are two female pit bull rescues, (Oh no, those are viscious and blood thirsty animals, KILL THEM NOW!!!!!!!!) four cats, 2 males, 2 females, all of the animals have been nuetered and/or spayed, so yes, FOUR FUCKING CATS, TWO DOGS, a parakeet, a desert t
ortious, and a pair of owls who have recently taken up residence on the garage roof.
The cats have the entire run of the property, but they don't mess with the cars. Maybe because they are nuetered/spayed.
Cats can be cool, cat owners can be complete tools....
Cat owners who choose to make the cat a n
uisance to others are the dipshits that need to be taught a lesson, not an animal that is only doing what it's instincts tell it to do.
Same shit applies to dog owners, it's just too bad so many don't understand that simple fact.
Now getting back to your situation.......Perhaps it's time, like a me and a few others have mentioned.......... stop blaming the cat and demand that your wife takes your balls out of her purse and gives them back to you.
Then tell her to get into the kitchen and make you a fuckin' sandwich................