87grandnat
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- Oct 14, 2003
before you respond to this please think out what you say, as i am in a mood to be easily influenced right now
Last couple of weeks i have been having some major problems with my girlfriend she pretty much acted like she didnt want to have anything to do with me. I work with her, and she would be cool at work but wouldnt call after work to see how i was at all. The whole time she was doing this i am thinking.....maybe she doesnt like me anymore or has found someone else. I would ask her numerous time if she was ok, or if something was bothering her, or if she needed to talk. I did everything i could to reach out to her but she left me grabbing air. I finally said, well this is enough and i can not take this anymore and told her we should go our separate ways, she tried to texted me the other day and i didnt respond because i was busy (and upset) but i texted her back last night. She called and said she wants to talk and that she would tell me whats wrong with her, i told her ok that i knew something was up but what can i do when you wont tell me anything. So she goes on to tell me that she was raped 3 weeks ago and has been acting this way because of that. She refuses to tell anyone, and i could only get certain things out of her but one of the things i did get out of her was the persons first name (she doesnt know his last) and were he goes to school at, she is not sure if he wore a condom or not nore is she sure if he "finished" With alittle effort i could find this guy and make sure he never did this again, but she or anyone else i have shared this with think its the right way to go as they think i will get carried away and wind up killing him or hurting him alot more than i planned.
Please let me know what i should do
Joshua
Last couple of weeks i have been having some major problems with my girlfriend she pretty much acted like she didnt want to have anything to do with me. I work with her, and she would be cool at work but wouldnt call after work to see how i was at all. The whole time she was doing this i am thinking.....maybe she doesnt like me anymore or has found someone else. I would ask her numerous time if she was ok, or if something was bothering her, or if she needed to talk. I did everything i could to reach out to her but she left me grabbing air. I finally said, well this is enough and i can not take this anymore and told her we should go our separate ways, she tried to texted me the other day and i didnt respond because i was busy (and upset) but i texted her back last night. She called and said she wants to talk and that she would tell me whats wrong with her, i told her ok that i knew something was up but what can i do when you wont tell me anything. So she goes on to tell me that she was raped 3 weeks ago and has been acting this way because of that. She refuses to tell anyone, and i could only get certain things out of her but one of the things i did get out of her was the persons first name (she doesnt know his last) and were he goes to school at, she is not sure if he wore a condom or not nore is she sure if he "finished" With alittle effort i could find this guy and make sure he never did this again, but she or anyone else i have shared this with think its the right way to go as they think i will get carried away and wind up killing him or hurting him alot more than i planned.
Please let me know what i should do
Joshua