Drew:
FWIW & IMHO:
Sorry to hear that all is not well with the car. I think that you would be much happier with Bilsteins rather than KYB, as mentioned above. Althouth I think that a bigger sway bar might help a little, I don't think that would be your next step. From what you are describing, I would think that something has loosened, also as previously mentioned, or something was just not correct from the factory. Shaking, rattling, or rolling after hitting a bump would almost sound like an early Ford, (bad ball joints, tie rods, steering gear maybe). If you are running all of the braces, including the rear seat brace, you just shouldn't have the problems/noises that you are describing. As previously mentioned, i would also inspect the underneath of the car if it were me. HTH