ok...I've moved and am now revisiting this problem. As stated, it's ALL 6 plugs that are very oiled and black. This happens as fast as just starting the car and letting it idle for a couple of minutes with new plugs they'll be nice and wet. I will do a compression check, I have to buy or borrow somebody's gauge. The car still has good power, runs good, and starts right up(now that I replaced the IAC), with little or no smoke. When I go full throttle it does leave a nice little cloud at that point and doesn't seem to continue smoking if I stay in it. No antifreeze in oil and is not using up the antifreeze.
I think it's either rings, valve guides(heads), or I guess it could be from the pcv, but I don't think so. I'm going to pull the plenum and see if there is oil in the intake, but I know there is no oil from turbo and not in up-pipe or throttle body. I'll update when I do the plenum.
Question....is there any way, besides taking the motor apart, to determine if it's rings or heads? Thanks!!