The legacy of Andy
Hello Jeff. It is so good see you here. As we spoke about at the wake and at the funeral, I wish that we could have met under different circumstances. But sometimes in life, unfortunate events bring people together for a reason. Yes, Andy touched so many lives, much more than anyone had imagined. Once again, this is a tribute to Andy as having been a very loving, caring, devoted, and most importantly, a good and generous person who had walked with God in his life. Andy was known for giving to others, all that he could offer to them at the time, which was his helping hand to anybody that needed one. I was the recipient of that many times.
I would never forget the time in which he came to my house. I was home after a knee surgery; I could not do much and Jason decided to come with his truck and trailer to move about 20 cars or so from storage, from my old house to the new house. From what I understand, Jason had just mentioned to Andy that he was going to help me move all of the cars, which you know is a big and back breaking task. Andy just asked Jason what time was he leaving from his house, and Andy arrived at Jason’s house fifteen minutes before Jason left for my house. I was surprised to see Andy when he and Jason appeared in my driveway. Andy had known that I was sore, partly immobile, and could use his help--and he was acting on his instinctive nature in his motive to help me. He arrived at my house without me even asking him for his help. Jason and Andy remained over night because we were not done with moving all of the cars in one day. I could not even offer Andy a bed, yet he was just happy to sleep on the couch. When I went downstairs to waken Jason and Andy the next day, I would never forget the sight of Andy sleeping on the couch, contorted and clearly uncomfortable. It never bothered Andy though, as his goal was to help me, and I will always be grateful for that and for everything he has done for me.
When I came to the wake, I had thought people were merely lingering in the first parlor. When I looked closely, I came to realize that people had formed a line in the whole room, front to back, as they moved into the next parlor which was also packed with people, who had come to pay their final respects and prayers for Andy. I had lived in the big city Chicago for a while, and I have seen and attended many funerals, yet I have never seen as many cars in a funeral procession as long as we had for Andy, it was few miles long I think. It was as though a state official or high profile person had passed away. Yet what we all had witnessed on the day of the wake and at the funeral, and had come to realize, is that: although Andy was neither a state official nor a celebrity, nor did he aspire to become one, Andy's genuine and reputable character had built for himself a fame which transcended worldly fame, for which he became greatly recognized and respected for. Andy’s kindness, love and generosity to others was by putting their needs first before his own needs, and before his own comfort and luxury, and that made Andy to be respected and revered by the society that he touched. It is these Godly traits that made Andy famous...I hope that we all can look back, realize, and learn from what Andy left us with: it is not how well we rank in status or by financial means in society, it is how many people you can touch through your God given ability to help others, with the time He has provided you with, here on earth. And Andy accomplished much more at the age of 22 than an average person would have ever accomplished in a full life span.
Andy is with God now, and with that comfort, we can all carry his memory forever, as Andy's legacy is a living example, lesson, and testimony of how we should all live as a human race: to put God in our lives first and foremost, love your neighbor secondly, as Andy did, then all else will fall in place.
Prasad