problem
check to make sure the Y hose is properly connected, you may have it reversed....
*wiped cam lobe
*wastegate actuator too loose....allowing exhaust pressure to push puck open WITHOUT the actuator doing its job.
*chip or ECM problem
*wastegate hole too small, may possibly need to go to larger downpipe with larger puck, or ported elbos with larger puck.
*Would check the wastegate actuator first, try tightening it up, see what the results are and post back here..if the puck is hanging open without the car running, you need to tighten it up and pre load the actuator...start out by tightening the actuator rod until (with the puck completely closed) you can JUST slip the actuator shaft over the puck arm.....then go one turn....this should net around 12-15 psi with HD actuator. also you may have gotten a bad actuator....with possibly too much spring pressure, swap your stock adjustable back on the car and see if you have the same problem.
*also I have seen turbo 3.8s with problems in the trans department...(torque converters) being too tight-->not enough stall, causing slow spool, and major boost flutter and reversion in intake manifold.
Hope this helps