I talked to him briefly on the phone on the 18th and mentioned this thread to him, and also asked him about his website. He said it should be back up in a couple of weeks to a month, and that he'd be back on the board soon so I guess wait a bit more and see...just thought I'd try to help.
It's really unfortunate about the grilles and headlight bezels. I had a decent-sized preorder placed with him (about $820 worth) and here on the board I was sticking by my decision to buy them from him when others had long since given up, but it got to the point where I couldn't wait any longer myself so I ended up buying the stuff from Paul Castle. I had placed the preorder with Epitome somewhere between March and May 2008 and made the decision to buy from Paul Castle in May of this year at the Buick show in Norwalk so I felt I'd waited long enough.
auto_5, he said the site has been down for some time. When did you place your order?