Even the "best" header gasket will leak or blow out unless the installation is proper.
There are 2 reasons header gaskets leak or blow out, one is the header flange is not flat, or the fasteners have loosened, usually the latter.
All fasteners are not equal with their "holding" performance.
The 2 best fasteners for headers I have found are the stock bolts with their captured washers, or studs and nuts.
Alum heads usually get studs.
The ARP 12 point bolts do not have enough head surface to provide ample friction to the header, and will loosen easily without repeated tightening.
No matter which type fastener is chosen and a header or turbo gaskets is used, fasteners MUST be re-tightened after each heat cycle until they no longer move.