I know this may not help much but if I am not mistaken the TC should unlock immediately when you let off the gas, no need to tap the brake to unlock it. But the other test I was trying to see if you had done was to let go of the gas when you are experiencing this problem and immediately shift down from 4th to 3rd or 3rd to 2nd with the shifter and see what happens, it should be a very noticable deceleration, especially from 3rd to 2nd and 2nd to first (which only catches below 20 mph or so)