my opinion on teens with guns is ok as long as you either been around them and respect them. know you have your future as well as that of anyone who may either be on the receiving end of anger, or settling something as minor as a girl. if you do get a shotty don't carry it with you, it won't make your nutz any bigger, just add time to your sentence if you mess up. steer clear of drugs, and as most kids do and i also indulged in drinking as a minor. i don't condone it but it happens so i cannot say don't as i'm not the role model to say something about it. if you live in the country and have been around guns most of the time these kids have the most level head in regards to knowing what it can and will do if used. good luck with the girl, just use protection ( dang now i sound like i'm talking to my own son ) as you cannot always trust the word of any girl. take care of your future as i stated the keys are in your hands. way too many of us have chosen the wrong path and wound up behind bars or worse. don't trip out over a girl as there are plenty out there, and true love is hard to find and a good woman is even harder. sounds like you have a level head on your shoulders just use it for something other then a hat rack. don't solve problems with violence and remember if your freinds are out and up to no good and your with them your just as guilty it's called guilt by association or accessorry to the crime. doesn't matter, i was given a 2nd chance after really screwing up back when i was 18 but i didn't hurt anyone but my car was used because i was to intoxicated to drive but went for the ride. i have made mistakes as we all have, what matters is if you sidestep them or put yourself in the middle. take your school seriously and don't let the little things bother you. you have alot of life to go and when all is said and done and we make that final exit, what will they remember you by? will it be he was a go getter, took care of business and made his family proud or the opposite. as i said just take care, i'm sure alot of us on this board can relate to some mistake we've made back in the day and wish we could erase it. a criminal record will follow you the rest of your life and you'll be judged by it when seeking employment. So take care of business buddy and make it happen. keep us posted on how things are going, i'm praying for the best for you as i'm sure several others wish you the best. take care of yourself because no one else will, stop and smell the roses every once in awhile and just enjoy life we only get this one here on this lovely planet we're on.