I just did this job a couple weekends ago also. I went to harbor freight and bought a ball joint tool for about 5 bucks. I think that is the oficial name of the tool, I've always heard them called pickle forks. They look like a 2 pronged fork and are tapered, thinner on the end then in the middle(like a wedge). then you simply take a hammer(preferebly heavy one) and drive the fork in between the ball joint and the control arm and they pop apart. Took mine about 5 or 6 blows to seperate. Just make sure you are containing the energy of the spring somehow. I left the nut threaded on the end for safety and also supported the control arm with a jack then when it was seperated lowered the jack releasing the spring tension and removed the spring. I beleive that autozone also loans out that tool if you have one nearby. Good luck and watch out for that spring tension. Jeff