(PART 1 of 3)
I registered onto this site for my kids' mom - & specifically to reach you on this forum ABOUT GERALD OKADA. This reply is not just from 1 person (me), it is from a whole ohana who got involved to, in our opinion, intervene/have an intervention AGAINST my kids' mom continuing to date or be in a relationship with GERALD OKADA. My kids' mom had, in our ohana opinion, a terrible MISFORTUNE by dating GERALD OKADA.
So that there is no mistake, GERALD OKADA does NOT go online as GOKADA any more: his new online name is CAPTAINAHI. GERALD OKADA is into toyotas now, he is all over the net in toyota forums, kayak paddling & fishing forums, news forums, online dating websites, even Japanese / Asian & Christian online dating websites (apparently he was even registering himself in NEW online dating accounts WHILE he was still in the relationship with my kids' mom) as CAPTAINAHI and CAPTAINAHI IS GERALD OKADA - you can go online & see for yourself because he posts lots of pictures of himself.
So that you can get the full scope of this (not that you care, but so you can grasp it), I was with my kids' mom for 10 years, we never married, had 3 kids together over 10 years, we remained as friends co-parenting our kids, and in the 4 recent years of our solid co-parenting & friendship (I go to her house several times a week to spend time with my kids), my kids' mom never dated or got into any relationship with anyone - until GERALD OKADA. It was sickening for the ohana to see her finally start dating again only to wind up with that donkey.
My kids' mom is no dummy (she is educated - she is doctor), she is financially secure & stable, she is no dog (anyone would think she is a knock-out), & she is so caring & kind-hearted that she is a God Mother to 23 God Children (because the parents recognize her goodness & choose her to be God Mother to their own babies & kids, at Baptismal, IN CHURCH BEFORE GOD). Naturally, my kids' mom has A LOT of people who value her & care about her. & my kids' mom is the kind of person who is so forgiving, understanding & trusting that the small & big stories of BS, in our opinion, shoveled at her by GERALD OKADA, allowed her to be victimized. Some of you on this forum are upset about how you were victimized -- it just goes to show that you can't protect yourself from a predator seeking to victimize you.
Along the way, everyone warned her about GERALD OKADA- our whole ohana began paying attention when GERALD OKADA would flake out, no-show, go M.I.A. for weekends or weeks at a time, & then we all really began to pay attention when GERALD OKADA left her in the lurch on events, holidays, & even her birthday. Who does that? Have you ever seen a friend suffer that kind of messed-up mistreatment? How would you like to see this GERALD OKADA mess with your sister, cousin, or friend? & what GERALD OKADA did, in our ohana opinion, would look like he screwed her over BIG TIME for ANYONE seeing this bullsh*#t.