For goodness sake, don't try to do it with the lines ON THE CAR! Save youselves the aspirin bills by bending the tube, flaring it, THEN installing it.
I've used the cheapo $10 tools on steel lines with no problem. You know, the ones that are two steel bars with half a hole in each bar, and they are held together with wing nuts? Chuck the wing nuts in a drawer and use some real nuts and a wrench, and tighten that thing down as hard as you can. Have a generous 1/8" of tube sticking out of the hole in the tool, and definitely get the mandrel centered over the tube. Crank it down, then remove. Now with just the cone part of the tool, get it centered again and crank it down again. Remove tubing from tool and you're ready to go. If it doesn't seal, make the tube nut tighter so it smashes the flare against the seat.