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Death by Starvation/Dehydration...Help Save Her Life
http://www.friendsofterri.org/
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I signed it!
I sure hope there is more to this story than is being reported here.If these are the actuall facts of this case----it is very very sad and i hope the husband lives a miserable existance with his new wife. Geoff
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I think the problem is that she has not had the opportunity to improve the quality of her life. If she had the rehabilitation the specialists and her family desire she may very well improve the quality of her life. Sounds to me like the husband has a motive for not trying to help her get better. He has already moved on by having a fiancee and a newborn child. Terri or someone on her behalf ought to sue for divorce since he has proven not to be faithful to the marriage committment. There has to be a loophole somewhere to help her. NO ONE deserves to endure 2 weeks of a suffering and painful death. I will certainly pray for her and for a resolution in her favor.
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Life ain't always fair.
I find it hard to draw much of a desicion based on one person's slanted story telling. If there was evidence of a crime he'd be prosecuted. Obviously there isn't and he isn't. Remember it's beyond reasonable doubt, not just doubt. There is no way of knowing, but she might be in incredible pain, and if not that, then just being in solitude for 10 years should hold for something. It's a terrible situation no doubt, and there aren't any good answers. Voting on something like this with only partial info., is just playing to one's sympathies, IMO. Like the politicians and the Save the Children statements of late. |
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That story is completely different then the one they are writing down here. They must have got most of that info from the parents. My understanding is that she is in a complete vegitative state and has no idea whats going on around her. Only the parents have seen her show any signs that "someone is home." Sounds like the parents are trying to use the media to sway things in their favor and not telling the truth.
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To let her starve to death is cruel. If they are going to allow her to die, it should be done humanely. It's BS that the courts are ruling to just remove the tube, they know what the end result will be. If they are ruling to allow her to die, they should have the doctors to do in quickly and painlessly. Worry over setting precedents and potential liability issues are all this is about.
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Thats the story I read too in our paper. She is in a total vegatation state... Wonder which story is right?? Its sad anyway..
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Thats the screwy part. Someone that is of sound mind, but in terrible pain can't have doctor assisted suicide that is painless, but someone that can't speak for themselves can be removed from a feeding tube and over the course of 2 weeks are allowed to starve to death.
A lot of people have a "do not resecitate" (sp?) clause in their will, but I don't think this starvation thing is the way it should be done.
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It's so hard to say much here other than the woman cannot and has not been able to sustain her own systems for more than 12 years. After that amount of time, anything other than Devine intervention will not help her get any better. That is her doctors own words. The press will play this both ways to gain circulation, the doctors and lawyers will do anything they can to bill hours. I fully understand the parents. They seem very bitter at this son-in-law and are seemingly doing this more from spite toward him than anything else. They, so wanting to have their daughter back are grasping at straws. If they truly love her, they will let her go. If they are concerned about her pain, euthanasia her and give her peace. I don't believe in euthanasia or abortion except in the most extreme of cases. This is one of those cases. Mark
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The one element missing here is what SHE would want no matter what her current condition is. many of us have talked to our spouses or family members about this exact senario. We express our wishes and they are followed through with based on our wishes. If this poor womens wishes were known this would barley make the obituaries of the local paper assuming she would want the plug pulled. If she wanted to stay alive under any circumstances we wouldn't know a thing about her as we know nothing about the other thousands just like her across the country. That family is trying to make decissions based on emotions and it doesn't work. I can tell you this, what a mess. Drew
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The husband says that it was her wish not to be kept alive if something like this happened. Thats where the stink between the parents and the husband comes from.
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husband says..............
That's what is so peculiar. He says that's what she wanted but there is no legal document to back it up. Peculiar because as 26 year olds that's not something we talk about. 26 years old being her age at the time of "stroke". A "Do Not Resuscitate" order is a binding legal contract between the state, spouse, patient and the patients doctor. If I'm reading this story right this document is missing so all of the procedures are based on the husbands say so. Right, wrong or indifferent it's still a mess. Drew
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WORCESTER SIX--WORCESTER COLD STORAGE BUILDING FIRE DEC. 3 1999 LAST ALARM BOX 5-1438 PAUL BROTHERTON RESCUE 1 JEREMIAH LUCEY RESCUE 1 LT. THOMAS SPENCER LADDER 2 TIMOTHY JACKSON LADDER 2 JAMES LYONS ENGINE 3 JOSEPH McGUIRK ENGINE 3 --------------------------------------------- The peace sign, footprint of the American Chicken celebrate internal combustion engine diversity indoctrinated government school educated public trough complaining scofflaw Trans Fat are banned by ingestion so should be banned by inhalation. Therefore, "Ban trans fat, No Biodiesel!" "I'm not sitting here like some little woman standing by my man like Tammy Wynette." ...Hillary Clinton Last edited by Drew L : October 17th, 2003 at 06:35 PM. |
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Yep, no legal contract. I'm only 32, and I've told my family to pull the plug on me if that happens, I'm also an organ donor, so I don't want to hold up somebody elses life for my vegitative life.
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After reading that story, it must be a different woman they show on TV because the woman on TV in no way "goes to the bathroom normally and communicates with those she loves"
I understand the family not wanting to let go. I was in the same position with my Grandmother and I had to be the one to give the order to stop nutrition. Talk about a very hard decision, mentally as well as morally But in the end, you have to do what is best for your loved one. I know my Grandmother would rather be "set free" than to have me be selfish and hold on. Also, from the doctors I've talked with and heard from on TV, they say drugs are given to make it as painless as possible.And the husband has been without his wife for 13 years. Maybe he has moved on in a effort to better deal with his loss. Don't be so quick to judge and I wouldn't believe the left-wing media as far as I could throw them. BTW, isn't it ironic that we put our pets "to sleep" because it is the humane thing to do and we don't want them to suffer, but we try every drug and machine known to man to keep a loved one alive, even though they are suffering and have no chance, just because we don't want to let go? ![]()
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Sad story. Youd think her family would be the first ones to suggest pulling the plug. To truely love someone is to know when its time to let them go. Unfortunatly, I know this first hand. Sounds like the family are the selfish ones here. Kind of hard to believe that the husband would wait 13 years just to inharit (sp?) $700,000.
couldn't sign it. BOOSTD
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Well spoken gn1220. It's all about selfishness. The media is so good at spinning a story out of anything, and it is none of any of our business really. Makes me wonder just who is trying to get to the money. The parents are the ones so interested in gaining control of her custodial keep.
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